There’s nothing better than to watch somebody getting some good hardcore video phone sex. Watching the person move their body and make the perfect climax has become a very sexy part of foreplay for many people. But, how do you get over the shyness to actually start having some real live webcams on?
It’s important to realize that when it comes to live webcams, they’re not for the shy. This is a misconception that so many people have. The truth is, there are plenty of really beautiful women out there that would love to be able to share their bodies with someone who can’t be in the same room as them. So if you’re a shy person, no problem, there’s plenty of others just like you out there. But to help you along, this is how to get started with video phone sex from building up the anticipation to how to really take it to the next level once you feel more confident.
The first thing you need to do is to make sure your setting is comfortable enough for both you and your partner. For example, in general speaking it’s a good idea to light the room up with some candles and also have some music playing if it’s an area where you have some alone time. Most couples generally feel more comfortable in smaller rooms, so long as they have the proper setting.
Next, it’s important to let your partner know that there’s something that you can do to spice things up. In general, it’s generally pretty easy for a cam girl to become a bit embarrassed and uncomfortable if her partner doesn’t do something to trigger some sort of reaction. So, let her know that you’re willing to do a few things differently to make it better. For example, instead of just sitting there staring at her in silence, start touching her arms and legs or even her stomach. Most of the time, this is enough to get her aroused and turned on enough to do something else.
Once you feel that she’s sufficiently turned on and stimulated enough, then you can move on to talking dirty. Obviously, you don’t want to jump into anything too explicit, but it’s generally a good idea to get a bit creative here. Generally, you should try to avoid using any cuss words (there are exceptions for when you absolutely have to use them), but if you feel the need to do so, go ahead. Some common dirty talk words include, but are not limited to, “you look sexy tonight”, “your hair looks nice today”, and “I love the way your lips feel”. Of course, these aren’t actual words, but if used properly they can definitely send the right message.
If you happen to be an awkward person who has never engaged in any form of explicit sex before, then you may want to consider not watching the Video Sex lesson. In a sense, this is like trying to navigate an airplane while speaking English (and not in a native language). Unless you are speaking Japanese, Chinese, Korean, or other languages that are mutually understood by most people, using unfamiliar words and phrases will certainly send mixed signals. An advertisement isn’t necessarily an embarrassing experience, but if used in the wrong situation it can become one.
Another thing to remember when it comes to using dirty talk to enhance your partner’s arousal and feelings is that it’s generally a much better idea to go slow. There’s nothing more embarrassing than a man telling his girlfriend that he’s about to go crazy and that she should be forewarned. On the other hand, a woman should feel comfortable with the idea that her man is going to take things to the next level and that he wants her to enjoy it. Slow down, touch her more, and get to know her body and what turns her on. This way, she’ll build a solid foundation for a long-distance sex life.
If you’re still awkward about using Video Sex to improve your relationship, try the old-fashioned way: talking to your lady. It worked so well for so many couples over the years that there’s no reason why it can’t work now. Just don’t tell her that you “met her online” when all she really meant was that you sent her a sexy video chat advertisement. Be direct, tell her that you two met her through a video chat advertisement, and you’re sure to make her blush and feel comfortable.